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Production Tips,Indie Label Advice & The Success of T.I. by DJ Toomp - Producer & Executive Producer
Author: Michael Lee
Title : How To Be A Red Hot Positive Thinker
Article URL: http://www.20dayper suasion.com/ positivethinking .htm
< http://www.20dayper suasion.com/ positivethinking .htm >
How To Be A Red Hot Positive Thinker
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- You only need to know ONE word to become a red-hot positive thinker and be an optimism magnet. You must make sure that this word stays in your
vocabulary for a long time. Before I reveal to you that one single word,
let me acquaint you first with the three words that perpetuate
negativity.
Why do people indulge on negative thoughts? There is no need for rocket
science principles here. Has it ever occurred to you that it is easier
to become a negative person than a positive one? People indulge in
negative thoughts mainly because IT IS EASY; and there are 3 simple
steps involved here.
Finding Faults. According to T. Harv Eker, "whoever can point to as many
people and circumstances without ever looking at himself is declared the
winner!" When caught in a bind, some people easily point to someone
else. It is the always the other person's fault. They take the easy way
out instead of taking responsibility and finding solutions to the
problem at hand.
They blame their parents for being the child they became, they blame
their spouse for making them feel unloved, they blame their boss for the
project that bombed, they blame their officemates for spreading gossip
about them. They blame credit card companies for their numerous debts,
they blame the sun for the uncomfortable heat, and they blame the wind
for ruining their hair. What's next to blame?
Making Excuses. In this case, some people use their creativity to come
up with innovative reasons and excuses just to get off the hook!
In work situations, some people would come up with excuses just to avoid
doing the task assigned. Others would claim that the task is difficult
or not within their line of expertise. Some would rationalize that it is
hard to initiate change even before trying it out first! Their mindset
is wired to give up easily. They would rather find one hundred reasons
why it cannot be done, instead of finding reasons why it is worthy to
purpose.
Whining Constantly. This refers to complainers who are dead set in
finding the negative side of things.
Whiners have difficulty in finding happiness in life, for they focus on
what they do not have, instead of being thankful for what they have.
When people are complaining, they magnify and focus on what is wrong in
their lives. When they complain about lack of money, that is what
precisely will manifest in their lives.
There you have it, the 3 simple and easy steps for perpetuating
negativity.
For a long time, people have been indulging on negativity. Many of us,
in one way or another and at any point in our lives, have engaged in
negative thoughts. The uncontrolled mind becomes the perfect breeding
ground for pessimistic thoughts. Everyday, negative programming is being
bombarded into our subconscious.
We already have lots of practice. To some, negativity is a way of life.
Some infants are born to negative families. They are sensitive enough to
absorb the prevailing atmosphere of the family. They easily imbibe the
mental and emotional characteristics of the mother and the father since
they are their first teachers. They grow up into teenagers and adults
with negative mental attitudes then later on become parents themselves.
Some find comfort in the company of friends who indulge in negative
thinking. "Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you
are." "Birds of the same feather flock together." This accounts for
man's need to belong to a group. Peers have a major influence on some
people's thoughts and decisions.
So now you ask me,
"What is the ONE word I need to know to become a red-hot positive
thinker?"
That one simple word is STOP.
STOP finding faults. STOP making excuses. STOP whining.
Have a positively great day!
About the Author:
Michael Lee is the author of http://www.20dayper suasion.com
< http://www.20dayper suasion.com/ > . How to be a Red Hot Persuasion
Wizard... in 20 days or less, an ebook that reveals mind-altering
persuasion techniques on how to tremendously enhance your relationships,
create unlimited wealth, and get anything you want...just like magic.
- Get a sample chapter and highly-stimulating "Get What You Want" advice
at: http://www.20dayper suasion.com < http://www.20dayper suasion.com/ > .
He is the Co-Founder of http://www.self- improvement- millionaires. com
< http://www.self- improvement- millionaires. com/ > and is licensed as a
Certified Public Accountant.
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